Divorce

[Erin Rush]

Hi all, I'm looking for some info on how to deal with my life. I'm 36 years old and have 2 wonderful boys they are 17 and 2. I'm pregnant with a baby girl. My husband who I have been with for 5 years has left me to be with another woman. I'm 20weeks along and already started contractions. I have asked him to go to work through this and he says NO. I have no money since I have been a stay at home mom for over 2 years. He has given me $100.00 since he left 3 weeks ago. Am I wrong for still loving him? can anyone give me some advise on how to handle all of this?

[Naomi]

Ok You are not that much older than me, And I know you are not going to like what I am about to tell you, But Maybe it will help you ( I hope) I was married to an older man (52) He left me with 4 boys and I ended up getting a restraining order against him. He refused to help me in the same way that you have not received any help. I ended up homeless with 4 kids and no way do do anything, I had to turn to my family for help. this was 2 years ago..I am now with a wonderful man who loves me, all of my kids, and does his best to take care of us all. My ex husband? well He has since quit his job, refuses to do anything, and is now in arrears in child support to the tune of $2432.56. I honestly would say you need to do what is best for you and your baby! I don't foresee him stepping up and doing much especially if he has another woman. And you also have to stop and think...Once a cheater always a cheater, He must think so much of you and your children if he is willing to push all of you aside for another woman.